别来无恙

很长的一段时间没在这儿留下只字片言，不是因为忙碌，而是懒惰！
你说没时间吗？又不是！
你说忙吗？也不是！
就一个字：懒～

最近发现。。。 其实也不是最近。。。
我真的很少很少花时间在家人身上！
每天除了忙碌的工作，就是忙于运动！
打球啦；游泳啦；跑步啦；爬山啦；
都没剩多少时间给家人！
不单是家人，男朋友也开口了～
他开始埋怨我除了工作和家人，都没什么时间留给他了～
家人不能谅解，男朋友也开始埋怨了，怎么都没人能了解?

或许我是在为自己找借口吧！

每天七点就离开家去上班，
我想，很多人都和我一样，
一呆，就到晚上了！
有时忙里偷闲，七点多离开公司，
偶尔去打球；偶尔去游泳；
偶尔自己一个人去闲逛；
为的，只是松口气，为什么就不能被体谅？

周末，想去跑步，想去爬山，也不能吗？
我不懂，我真的错了吗？
我闲着时，大家都像在忙；
我忙着时，大家怎么都像在埋怨我没时间？

对不起，我想，我真的很失败；
无论在工作上，家庭上；或者人际关系上；
我都是个失败者～
我越想把每件事做好，就越把事情搞砸！
为什么。。。

是命运主宰了我，还是该由我去改变命运？

你的“爱”是那种爱？

the following was copied from a blog belongs to a local DJ, which i feel very true in life:-

你的“爱”是那种爱？
在你心中如何诠释“爱”这个字？

很多人在疯狂示爱后还是得不到对方的爱时狂吼：

我这么爱你，为什么你不爱我？

这样的爱在你眼里是爱吗？
曾有个听众问起爱与不爱的问题，说真的，在我们生活周遭顺手拈来就有太多爱到死去活来的实例，前些时候还在开运鉴定团节目看到很多“爱你爱到咒死你”的case。

说来令人毛骨悚然，明明是爱，为什么最后会变成伤害？

不管爱到还是爱不到，如它的《根本》是以爱出发，不应该是件很美好的事吗？

如果爱对方，对方却不爱你，没能给与同等的“回报”，那你还继续爱吗？

如果爱对方，对方不但不爱你，还当众处处给你难堪，你的“爱”会动摇吗？

如果爱对方，对方不爱你的同时，还向众人公开你的痴缠，你会否知难而退？

如果爱对方，对方爱你的同时，还爱着另一个人，你可有足够的爱来包容？

如果爱对方，对方要你负起“养他”或甚至“养他全家”的责任，你会能否如阿信般甘之如饴？

如果爱对方，对方已有对象或甚至已有家室，他“无法”离婚但真心爱的是你，你会做什么决定？

如果爱对方，对方回报你专一的爱，不过在你以外却是坏事做尽，是个极爱你的但也同时是个不折不扣的大坏蛋！！那你这份在刀口下的爱还在不在？

如果爱对方，对方爱你，但有时因“为你好”而常谩骂或甚至动手打你，你的精神和皮肉之苦还能用爱支撑吗？

如果爱对方，对方只爱你，但就无法尊重你的家人，要你“断六亲”，你会否无悔斩亲情？

如果爱对方。。如果。。如果。。。

有一千几百种可能性存在，你的爱又是处于那一个阶段？

问问你内心的答案，这到底是“爱”还是“想得到爱”？

这个问题其实没有标准答案，每个故事都视你的决定而有不同。

不止一次鼓励大家好好思考，因为现代年轻人就是不喜欢“想”自己到底想怎样，碰到焦头烂额时，问他/她当初为何会选择这个对象？答案都是“不知道”，是真的不知道还是不想伤脑筋去想？

如果没从过往的挫折中学习成长，就只有在无穷无尽的伤痛中打滚，这是你要的选择吗？

第一次做错事并不叫“错”，而是“不对”罢了，
如果一而再的犯同样的错，明知不可行而行之，只懂得把矛头指向别人，冥顽不灵的才叫“错”。
所以如果你不小心做得不对，别气馁，只要能吸取教训，从中学习，就离成功不远了。

我坚信“爱”的本质没有对错，但如果以爱当作“借口”合理化自己的所有不道德甚至违法的所作所为，则污蔑了“爱”的本意。

ref: http://vivian.blog.my.com.my/19695#more

生气

控制情绪，是很多人都会说的话；
可是，当气头上，情绪，又哪是说控制就能控制得了的呢？
像今天，根本就没想过和他吵嘴，可是不知为何，当他说的话不中听时，脾气就来了，心情也就变坏了！
还好，我有个不知是好还是不好的习惯。
当我心情不好，或脾气来的时候，我就不想说话了。那一刻，我也就静了下来，他也不再继续了！
终于，过了一个小时，我发了简讯给他；告诉他我的心情，和我对他的失望。。。
还好，他发回来的简讯，不是和我争辩，也不是和我吵架，而是和我道歉！
虽然我还在气头上，可是他的简讯，让我好气又好笑，哪还会生气呢？
我真的相信，说话，其实是一种艺术，也是一种技巧!
同样的话，用不同的方式表达，会带出不同的效果。。。

会说话与不会说话，常在那一念之间。
一念之间，他懂得忍、懂得退一步想，想想坏话怎麽好说，
狠话怎麽柔说，就可能有个喜剧的结局。

举个例子： 有个朋友，在他新居的後院搭了间工具房。
那工具房是买现成的材料，再自己拼装的， 专门用来放剪草机、铲子、锄头这些整理花园的工具。
可是才拼装到一半，他的邻居竟然隔着墙喊： 「你乱盖房子，是违法的。」
这人气极了，跑到建管处去问， 得到的答案是盖十乘十以内的工具屋，不违法；
只有超过，才违法。 他回去量了量自己买的工具屋，是十乘十二，多了两尺，
於是拿去退掉，换成合法的尺寸。 工具屋搭好了，
他说： 「我非要去糗糗我那邻居不可，我要告诉他中国人不好欺负，
我去政府单位问过了，现在搭的绝对合法，欢迎他去告！」
「你何必这麽说呢？」朋友劝他，何不换个方式，
对他说： 『真是谢谢你，幸亏你提醒我，不然我的工具屋多了两，
因为违法得拆除，就白盖了。』 你不是照样让他知道你去问过政府单位，
现在是合法建筑了吗？」 结果不但没有得罪邻居，还交上了好朋友。

Morale of the story

A long time ago, there was an Emperor who told his horseman that if he could ride on his horse and cover as much land area as he likes, then the Emperor would give him the area of land he has covered.
Sure enough, the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and rode as fast as possible to cover as much land area as he could. He kept on riding and riding, whipping the horse to go as fast as possible. When he was hungry or tired, he did not stop because he wanted to cover as much area as possible.
Came to a point when he had covered a substantial area and he was exhausted and was dying. Then he asked himself, "Why did I push myself so hard to cover so much land area? Now I am dying and I only need a very small area to bury myself."
The above story is similar with the journey of our Life. We push very hard everyday to make more money, to gain power and recognition. We neglect our health , time with our family and to appreciate the surrounding beauty and the hobbies we love.
One day when we look back, we will realize that we don't really need that much, but then we cannot turn back time for what we have missed.
Life is not about making money, acquiring power or recognition . Life is definitely not about work! Work is only necessary to keep us living so as to enjoy the beauty and pleasures of life. Life is a balance of Work and Play, Family and Personal time. You have to decide how you want to balance your Life. Define your priorities, realize what you are able to compromise but always let some of your decisions be based on your instincts. Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of Life, the whole aim of human existence..
So, take it easy, do what you want to do and appreciate nature. Life is fragile , Life is short. Do not take Life for granted. Live a balanced lifestyle and enjoy Life!
Watch your thoughts ; they become words.
Watch your words ; they become actions.
Watch your actions ; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character .
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny .

SECRET FOR CAREER

"It's not what you know. It's not who you know. It's who knows what you know that creates success for you."

CAN DO ATTITUDE

This is very true:-

"If you believe you can, you probably can. If you believe you won't, you most assuredly won't. Belief is the ignition switch that gets you off the launching pad."
-Denis Waitley

沟通

人与人之间的沟通真的有那么难吗？

二十一世纪的人，已不再面对面的沟通。他们的沟通方式，已渐渐的走向电子方式，不是吗？科技的发达，让现代人不再用语言沟通。大家有空就发发短讯，不然就发个EMAIL，以往的打电话，或有空见见面的沟通方式已渐渐被遗忘！

静心想想，你的知己朋友有多久没见了呢？大家都忙吗？大家都离的很远很远而不能相见吗？我想，很多时候，很多人的答案都不是刚刚说的那两个，而是电子的发达，让大家都少了见面的机会。

或许，还有一个大家都很关注的时事，那就是治安的问题！有时候，真的不是你我可以控制的。一两年前，单独出门或许有点危险；可是现今的社会，治安的问题已亮起了红灯！奈何，坏人之多，岂是警察们能控制的！或许警察之中，确实是有害群之马，但可别一支竹竿打翻一船人！他们之中，我相信，坚决的相信，还是有好人，还是有关心社会的人！或许因为某些原因，而使他们无可奈何，或者有心而力不足！

我真的希望在新的政府执政下，一切都会有所改变！

迎佛游行

今天是一年一度的迎佛游行。我虽然只是“半”个佛教徒，我也参与了这项盛会！适逢假日，好多好多人参与了这项游行！路途虽不长，但我也因为人数之多而汗流浃背的！

http://pbms.org.my/pbms_cms/index.php

这里是静妙佛教协会的资料和常年活动。

过生日

一年一度的生日这样就过去了！虽然不怎么样，还是过了蛮充实的一天！

今天到了外婆家一趟，虽然听了她几小时的唠叨我也无所谓！没有她，哪有我妈；没有我妈，哪有今天的我；没有今天的我，哪有这篇文章的出现？哈哈，太长篇大论了吧！

然后，我还做了泡泡浴！那可不是普通的泡泡浴！是很热很热的泡泡浴！泡了半小时的澡，我还整整流了一个小时的汗！一点也不夸张，是真的整整一小时的汗！哈哈，正合我减肥的意愿！好吧，明儿我可要再去一趟，让自己好好的流一小时的汗！顺便也把多余的肥油流掉！哈哈

最后，我还很不争气的吃了宵夜！嗨。。。 七点以后不吃东西的恒心，就在我生日当天破掉了!好吧，放纵自己一天，下不为例！但愿我还真能把持下去！



对了，今天还发生了一件怪事。有一只蝙蝠，尽然倒吊在我的车尾，一路跟着我从我家到十多公里外。我本来想把它再带回到我家，可惜半路下起了雨，加上天色开始昏暗，它也就本能的飞走了！真的太可惜了！庆幸的是来得及拍了几张它的照片！此景只能回味了。。。

生日礼物

很高兴今年第一位和我过生日的人是他! 他带来了我爱吃的cheese cake！虽然我在积极的减肥，我还是吃了两片！很贪吃，对吧！没关系啦，难得生日一年一次，吃了再减好了！明天早点起床做早操好了！

他不但带来了好好吃的蛋糕，还买了小老鼠给我! 不是真的老鼠啦，是mouse! 电脑用的mouse! 我真的很高兴他真的了解我，了解我的需要！我买了新的laptop, 他尽然知道我需要老鼠来操作！虽然没有小老鼠我还是能用touch pad, 可是就是没小老鼠那么好用！

虽然小老鼠并不是很贵的礼物，可是那份心意是最令我感动的！物轻情意重！

谢谢你对我的用心！不管以后的路有多艰辛，只要有你在身旁，一切都会变得雨过天晴的！

还有还有，在我生日的这一天，最不能忘记的，是我伟大的妈妈！没有她，哪有我？我的诞生，建筑在她的痛苦上！母亲大人不知是挨了多少时间，才把我带来了这个花花世界!母亲的伟大，非笔墨能形容！

没有她，哪有我？没有我，哪有他？

recovered

my fellow colleague has returned back to work today. really feel happy to see her again. even though she has not fully recovered, she looks healthy and still, happy most of the time!

really glad to see her again! she gained something during her illness... she lost weight! i know it is not right to say this, but cutting weight during illness is more effective than going to slimming centre, where u need to spend thousands of ringgit to cut off around 5kg's weight! well, maybe it is not a healthy way to reduce weight, but at least better than those bought slimming products at pharmacies or elsewhere, where bring harm to health.

i think still, exercise is the most effective way for weight reduction but once stop, u will back to previous weight!

anyway, strong determination and stamina are very important in weight cutting! but, where there is a will, there is a way! i strongly believe in it!

trust me! if u think u can, u can! i can make it, so to u!

Best of Luck!

lost 7kg in 3 weeks time

my dear colleague who suffered from illness has cut 7kg weight! dunno we shall happy on this result or not! she has been admitted for about 2 weeks and rest at home for another week! we thought she can fully recover by this week and back to work! however, after few tests undertaken, she failed and has to rest for another week! really hope she get well soon!

小丑

今天参加了工司举办的常年家庭日。为了吸引更多的员工参加，主办单位准备了很多节目，例如舞台表演，小丑，摩天轮，碰碰车等等等等。 在众多的节目中，最吸引我的不是那些游戏，也不是那些免费的食物，而是引大家高兴，带给大家欢乐的小丑！他们为了讨好大家而使出了浑身解数！高脚的，矮小的，吹气球的，还有喷火的！喷火的那个环节是最令我难忘的！

小丑的责任就是把欢笑带给每一个在场的人！人们的欢笑就是他们动力的来源！多少人会在乎小丑们的心酸？在他们表演喷火的那一霎那，在场的人并不是关心小丑的安危，而是都闪的远远的！

小丑这份工作是很伟大的！他们把欢喜带给每一个人，而把痛苦留给自己；大家欢笑的背后可有感谢带给大家欢笑的小丑？

衷心的谢谢小丑们带给人们的欢笑

Discharging...

just received a simple sms from my colleague who was sick... a simple sms that really make everyone happy! she informed us that she can be discharged today! hurray! what a good news for us and for herself and her little baby gal! even though she cant start work on coming week, we are happy to hear that she is recovering!

last 2 weeks were really nightmare for her, and for us too! a small sickness became such a big one! the most critical one is she being informed that her kidney has pus! and she cant undergo operations but depends on medicine only! nomatter how, she is recovering, really happy to hear it!

My fren, take care of yourself and hope to see u in office soon!

GET WELL SOON!

Property investment

a lot of ppl told me that to have early retirement, investment in property market from now, then my wish will come true.

at the beginning, i dun really believe in it. after a few months looking at examples, i started to believe. rich ppl get richer and poor one remains poor... know why? it is basically because those rich one get their money roll and roll and roll many times! for example, when a rich guy place booking for a property under-construction, its SPA price could be at RM1.0 mil. Upon completion, if the property located at prime area, its fair market value could shoot up to RM2-3 mil! if this guy doesnt want to sell this property, he could rent it out for rental. at the same time, he could seek refinancing from banks which can offer higher margin of financing with the cheapest interest rate in town. with the current competitiveness in the market, he can easily get a loan approved, which can also offer him cash-out money for other investment. this is where his excess money come from and increase in his networth!

i just visited an apartment unit located in Nilai, which selling at RM80k ++. This can be considered as a good investment, and at the con side, it can be the worst investment too! why i say so? let's see, the strongest selling point of this apartment is its location. it is located just opposite Inti Internation College Nilai, which is just walking distance to class; the weakest point of this investment also because of this college. what if this college decided to move/shift to other location? what if the students take up rate here dropped? these are the uncertainty that i need to overcome/face if i take up this investment.

however, as everyone knows, high risk high return! i shall take this up, so that i get nearer to my wish: early retirement.

Recovering...

today received my colleague's sms.... a simple sms that made all of us happy! she told us that her blood test report was out... her blood level is normal and if she has no fever in these 2 days, most probably she can be discharged this saturday! hurray! i really feel happy on her behalf! she was admitted last monday and today is Thurs! in these 11 days, most of us have been working, eating, sleeping as normal, but for her, she has experienced one of the toughest time in her life, i guess! she told me she been injected 4x in her hand just to get 10cc blood for a simple blood test! can you imagine that?

we wouldnt know what will happen on us tomorrow, even the next hour, minute or even second, thus always enjoy life to the fullest! this is one of my principle of life!

dear frens, love yourself, love your family and love everyone that cares...

Sickness

One of my colleagues was admitted to the hospital one week ago (since 7th of April). She didnt know that she was so sick until has to stay in the hospital for so long, till now.

At the beginning, she has only urine problem, but she didnt take k of herself.. after awhile, it affected her kidney, then the virus went to other places of her body! until now, it has became serious! from just urine problem, till now, she has pus in her kidney! Oh God! she body was bloated like elephant! i really hope she will recover soon! her little daughter is waiting her at home! me as her friend, i pray hard everyday, wish her all the best and get well soon!

Dear all friends, take k of your health. dun oversee minor sickness! dun be another friend of mine, who sufferred for the toughest time in her life!

Love yourself, love your body and love everyone that cares you!

God bless!

ABMB Bollywood Night @ KL Conventional Centre

Managed to take photos with my Bank's CEO, Dato Bridget Lai.

One of my Best Fren married on 29.12.2007

I'll be happy when...

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have
a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old
enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that, we're
frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy
when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be
complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer
car, when we are able to go on a nice vacation or when we retire. The
truth is there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now,
when? Your life will always be filled with challenges.

It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.
Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure
it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to
spend your time with ... and remember that time waits for no one.


So, stop waiting ...
Until your car or home is paid off.
Until you get a new car or home.
Until your kids leave the house.
Until you go back to school.
Until you finish school.
Until you lose 10 lbs.
Until you gain 10 lbs.
Until you get married.
Until you get a divorce.
Until you have kids.
Until you retire.
Until summer..
Until spring.
Until winter.
Until fall.
Until you die.

There is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a
journey, not a destination. So work like you don't need money, love like
you've never been hurt, and, dance like no one's watching.

Just for Fun

I wrote your name on sand it got washed.
I wrote your name in air,it was blown away. Then...
I wrote your name on my heart & i got Heart Attack.

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God saw me hungry, he created pizza.
He saw me thirsty, he created pepsi.
He saw me in dark, he created light.
He saw me without problems, he created YOU.

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Twinkle Twinkle little star
You should know what you are
And once you know what you are
Mental hospital is not so far.

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The rain makes all things beautiful.
The grass and flowers too.
If rain makes all things beautiful
why doesn't it rain on you?

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Roses are red, Violets are blue
monkeys like u should be kept in zoo.
Don't feel so angry you will find me there too
not in cage but laughing at you.

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When ur life is in darkness pray to God ask him to
free u from darkness and if after you pray and you're
still in darkness, please pay your ELECTRICITY BILL!

How do others see you

For those who want to know how people look at you, please feel free to visit the following site:-

http://i.flowgo.com/greetings/How_Do_Others_See_You/How_Do_Others_See_You.swf

关于金钱

有了钱
你可以买楼
但不可以买到一个家

有了钱
你可以买钟表
但不可以买到时间

有了钱
你可以买一张床
但不可以买到充足的睡眠

有了钱
你可以买书
但不可以买到知识

有了钱
你可以买到医疗服务
但不可以买到健康

有了钱
你可以买到地位
但不可以买到尊重

有了钱
你可以买到血液
但不可以买到生命

有了钱
你可以买性
但不可以买到爱

This is really amazing, you must try it out!

1) key-in the first 3 digit of your handphone number(not the 01x number) into the calculator
2) multiply by 80
3) add 1
4) multiply by 250
5) plus last four digit of phone number
6) plus last four digit of phone number again
7) minus 250
8) divide by 2 at last







Is it your handphone number????



AMAZING!!!!!

Blog

When everyone starts to have their own blogs, me too, started to have my own...

At first, feel excited to have own blog and started to post comments, notes, mails etc...

Days passes, months passes, slowly, I have lack of ideas what to post, or in the other words, lazy to post!

Haha... I think this is basically a feeling that every human being will have!

Anyway, I will still keep this blog active, as it named "my love will get you" and will be lasting forever, forever, forever. . . . Don't feel bore with my blog, okay!

~~絕對經典！!~~

> 當我向老板請假的時候，老板寫了這封信這樣回答我：
> 你想請一天假？看看你在向公司要求什麼？
> 一年裡有365天你可以工作。
>
> 一年52個星期，你已經每星期休息2天，剩下261天工作。
>
> 你每天有16小時不在工作，去掉170天，剩下91天。
>
> 每天你花30分鐘時間喝咖啡，加起來每年23天，剩下68天。
>
> 每天午飯時間你花掉1小時，又用掉46天，還有22天。
>
> 通常你每年請2天病假，這樣你的工作時間只有20天。
>
> 每年有5個節假日，公司休息不上班，你只幹15天。
>
> 每年公司還慷慨地給你14天假期，算下來你就工作1天，
>
> 而你他媽的還要請這一天假？
>
> 我的回信內容：
> 你怎麼不說
> ---
>
>
> 每天8:30分上班，我8:10就要從家中出門
>
> (這段時間我為公司做事,但是
> .......沒有給我錢)。
>
> 每天17:30下班，我要到18:00才會到家
>
> (這段時間我為公司做事,但是......沒有給我錢)。
>
>
公司規定不能隨便穿，要穿襯衫西裝庫皮鞋，偏偏我最討厭穿襯衫西裝褲皮鞋，這我要花自己的錢去買，公司也沒有給錢。
>
>
每天看電腦，對我的眼睛是一大傷害，我近視平均每年增加至少100度，將來的醫藥費還要自己付，為了工作傷害自己永久的健康，公司也不做這方面的補助。
>
>
每天用滑鼠鍵盤，害的我肩膀酸痛的要死，回去還要自己買沙龍趴思來貼，這部份公司又不提供沙龍趴思，又得我自己出錢。
>
> 每次有案子，你一句話丟下來，我就要花盡心思，
> 怎麼打一份讓你交差的企劃書，隨時隨地走到哪裡
> 連半夜作夢都夢到，公司也沒給我加班費。
>
>
> 客戶不爽，打來公司對著我的耳朵狂吼，弄的我精神衰弱、
>
> 食慾不振，還要開夜車趕案子，開紿懷疑我會過勞死，
> 公司也沒給我錢和保險。
>
>
每天希望同事和客戶在工作上能夠配合，所以自己出去玩的時候，還要買個紀念品給同事和客戶以打好關係，這紀念品的錢還是要我自己出。
>
> 我不過多請一天假~
>
>
> "你媽的還不讓我請這一天的假"